ABDERRAHIM AIT BARA

 

1. Destiny & Choice:

To be a male is destiny, but to be a man is a choice. 
To be pretty is destiny but to be nice is a choice.
To be rich is destiny, but to be happy is a choice.
To love is destiny, but to hate is a choice.
To be wise is destiny, but to be smart is a choice.
To survive is destiny , but to live is a choice.
To work is destiny, but to exceed is a choice.
To err is destiny, but to forgive is a choice.
To fall down is destiny, but to stand up is a choice
To hear is destiny, but to speak is a choice.
To cry is destiny, but to smile is a choice.
To fear is destiny, but to be brave is a choice.
To dream is destiny, but to realise is a choice.
To adventure is destiny, but to dare is a choice.
Your life is not a destiny, but Fifty percent is a choice.
Stop blaming destiny, but revise again your choice.

Said by Abderrahim AitBara

 

2. Life :

 

...To live or not to live, this is not the question; but what matters is how much you achieve, you produce and you serve the humanity in your life..
Abderrahim AitBAra

 

3. Honesty:

..If we face each other with eyes instead of faces & smile with hearts instead of lips & speak with minds instead of tongues, the H would never link HATRED to the HEART and the E would never come first in EVIL and last in LOVE.

Said by Abderrahim

 

4. Originality :
..... Whatever goals you achieved......whoever you became.....wherever you arrived..... just look down and remember the thing that was behind all what made you as you are now..
Said by Abderrahim AitBara

 

5. Friendship :

....Friends in one's life are like painting colors. The more skillful you are in playing with colors, the most wonderful tableau of your life you will end up with...

Said by Abderrahim

 

6. Reflection :

 

...It is good to go one step backward from time to time, because you don't know where your chance is, whether it is still in the front or has just left behind...

Said by Abderrahim AitBara

 

7. Soul :

..Soul is like a high mountain, the higher you go up the fresher the air you will get and the purest the breathing will be. The same thing with your soul, The higher you raise up with your soul, the fresher the mind you get, the easier your communication will be...

Said by Abderrahim AitBara

 

8. Life :

Life is the best teacher ever..... the best way your lessons are revised, the least of errors you will commit....... the quicker in memorizing you are, the wiser you become at a very young age.
Said by Abderrahim AitBara

 

9.The best of what I read about friends:

Friends are like flowers
They add color to your life
They spread fragrance
they wipe your tears
They make you laugh
They are always there
When you need them
When you are down
They give you support
And let you up
When you are up
They rejoice with joy
Think of them
They may not tell you
When they need you
Do you act along?
Even if you don't
They never blame you
Because they are your true friends
They see only the good in you
They love you the way you are
They think of you a lot
they fight for you
They give you special place in their hearts
And they know very well
They wouldn't survive without you nearby 

.........>>Friends forever<<.........

The definitions are collected from different cultures all over the world.

 

5. Friendship :

... Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth, even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile. There are moments in life when you really miss someone that you want to pick them up from your dreams and hug them. Hope you dream of that someone. When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but we often look to long at the closed door, thus, we don't see the one which has been open for us. The beginning of love is to let those who love be perfectly themeselves and not to them with our own image, otherwise, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them. Yes, it says, it takes a minute to have a crash on someone, and an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it says, it takes a lifetime to forget someone. Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched and those who have tried. Only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives. Never give up when you still feel you can take it. Never say goodbye when you still want to try. Never say you don't love that person anymore when you can let go. Giving someone all your life is never an assurance that they love you back. Don't expect love inreturn just wait for it to grow in their hearts, but if it doesn't, be happy it grew in yours. There are things you love to hear them. But you would never hear them from the person whom you would like to hear them from, but don't be deaf to hear them from the person who says them with his heart....

 

 COLLECTED BY ABDERRAHIM  '' FROM THE BOOK OF THE ANCIENT WISDOM "